July 31-August 5,
2015
“Berend Botje ging uit varen
Met zijn scheepje naar Zuidlaren
De weg was recht, de weg was krom
Nooit kwam Berend Botje weerom.
Een, twee, drie, vier, vijf, zes, zeven,
Waar is Berend Botje gebleven?
Hij is niet hier, hij is niet daar
Hij ging naar Amerika.”
(Dutch nursery rhyme)
We are finishing up on our pilgrimage back to the home
country and it is time to review what we have seen and learned. In my book
‘NEITHER HERE NOR THERE, A First Generation Immigrant in Search of American
Exceptionalism’ I compared the conditions I found in America in the early
eighties (when we had to decide if we wanted to go back to Europe or immigrate
to America, where we had been living for 7 years as ex-expatriates) with the
conditions we encounter in modern day America. In this pilgrimage I had the
opportunity to compare contemporary life in the Netherlands with contemporary
life in America. It had been long since I had taken the time to look around in
the Netherlands and interview people living there.
I find the Netherlands more beautiful and better organized
than I remember it. Admittedly, I focused on and spent almost all of my time in
the areas of natural beauty, which generally equates with low population pressure
and unspoiled landscapes, like Zeeland, Brabant, Drenthe, de Achterhoek, de
Veluwe, de Utrechtse Heuvelrug, Kockengen, and – most of all – Vlieland. But I
also spent considerable time in Rotterdam, my college town, and found it more
vibrant, cleaner and more cosmopolitan than it was when I lived there.
Rotterdam has had the benefit of a succession of exceptionally competent and
ambitious mayors who have propelled the city forward both economically,
socially and architecturally.The current mayor of Rotterdam, Ahmed Aboutaleb, was born in
Morocco, came as a ten year old boy to the Netherlands, and is of Islamic
faith. He acquired world-wide recognition when he addressed his many
compatriots and fellow Muslims living in the Netherlands and bluntly told them
that if they were unwilling to conform to Dutch culture and laws, they would be
well advised to go somewhere else. He is a politician of a caliber we can be
envious of in the U.S. This is the type of modern day politician that the world
needs more of if it wants to deal effectively with the challenges of
globalization and immigration.
We are deeply touched by the welcome we have received from
family and friends, most of whom we had not seen in a long time. In almost 5
weeks we have not had to stay one night in a hotel. Our home base in Kockengen,
in the heart of the country, was graciously made available to us by a dear old
friend, while she was spending her summer at her property in France. In Zeeuws
Vlaanderen we stayed at the home of a fellow member of the Round Table, who had
moved the family for the month of July to the Belgian coast. We stayed four
nights with Christie’s brother Jaap and four days with her brother Kees. We
stayed one night with my 84 old brother Wolter and one night with college
friends in Ulvenhout, in Brabant. On Vlieland we shared a big rental house in
the dunes with Christie’s four siblings. In the process we had ample
opportunity to compare notes about living in Holland versus living in America. It
seemed that nobody wanted to trade places with us. Hospitality is a sacred
tradition also in many areas in the USA and with most ethnic components of its
population. But I found the hospitality experienced in Holland of special depth
and breadth. Without exception, we found deep and sincere interest in our
live-paths, in our points of view and in our family. I had in five weeks more,
and more penetrating, conversations about life and its vagaries than I recall
having back home in years. I found keen interest in my book and, in many
instances, was met with probing and incredulous questions about my view of
America today. Holland is a country with a tolerant, middle of the road,
tradition and I found little or no understanding for the far left and the far
right expressions of American politics. My friends and relatives in the Netherlands are
stunned by the paralysis and dysfunction displayed in the American Congress and
don’t understand the dynamics behind it. Who does? I get the sense that
American leadership – as displayed during the World Wars – is still desired and
expected here but found either misdirected or sorely missing.
The Dutch infrastructure, in contrast with America’s, is up
to date. Public transportation of all kinds is abundantly available everywhere,
and affordable. Combined with the popularity of the bike, the Dutch, are much
less dependent on cars than we are. Which is a good thing, because, as it is,
traffic jams and long delays are par for the course during rush hours on the
highways in the Randstad (the big city region between Amsterdam, Rotterdam, The
Hague and Utrecht). Biking’s popularity means that Dutch kids have less trouble
to stay in shape than their American peers who get bussed or chauffeured
everywhere. I found the Dutch also much more environmentally conscious than
Americans, as evidenced by their interest in clean energy, in combating the
effects of climate change, in avoidance of car use in favor of public
transportation or biking, in rigorous recycling and in deposits on the use of
glass and plastic bottles.
The political climate in the Netherlands is very different
from what we experience in America. The number of political parties is larger
than ten, money influence in politics is, if it exists, undetectable to the
naked eye. Of course it helps that, in the parliamentary system, the members of
parliament don’t have to run for personal election. Their seat in parliament
depends on the percentage of votes the party they belong to collects and on
their ranking on the election list of their party. Candidates for parliament
campaign for their party rather than for their own seat. They don’t have to
hold out their hand at every election and don’t waste time on campaign donor
events.Because of the multitude of parties participating in
national elections, forming a government is by necessity a matter of building a
coalition, which –in turn – means articulating an agenda, a platform from which
to govern. The strategic direction for the government is negotiated up-front by
the parties participating in the coalition government. National parliamentary
elections are held every four years or upon resignation of the ruling
coalition, whichever comes first.
Unavoidably, the question came up for me, if, now that I had
a chance to give the Netherlands a second look, I find that I made a mistake by
emigrating to the USA. It is a moot point. The die has been cast. The Jager
family is, and will remain, firmly rooted in American soil. But I doubt if I
would have left the Netherlands if, in the early eighties, I could have foreseen
how life in the Netherlands and America would develop in very different
directions from what I predicted at the time. I have to accept the reality that
most of the contemporaries I went to school with, including our siblings, have
done equally well or better in their careers than I have in the USA. Nor can I
deny that their children are, almost without exception, at least as well
educated and successful as ours.
Holland is a pleasant, tolerant and safe living environment.
It appears well governed, managed and organized. It is evident that here the
taxpayers get something tangible for their admittedly stiff taxes. Its people
are enterprising, well-educated and culturally and socially aware. Its natural
landscapes are breathtaking and all within 1-2 hours’ car ride from the center
of the country. The USA undoubtedly has landscapes of more majesty, but most of
them are hard to reach and far apart. It was one of my biggest surprises, that
peace and quiet can still be found in Holland, in spite of the population
growth from 11 million to over 16 million souls in my lifetime. It is easy to
escape the Randstad and the rat-race in the Netherlands by a less than two hour
car ride to one of these well protected oases. In Cleveland a two hour car ride
gets me to Pittsburgh, Columbus or Detroit. Another surprise is how well the
country has preserved its national heritage of centuries’ old buildings,
churches, castles, windmills, homes and cityscapes. Anything of historic
stature has been preserved and carefully and lovingly renovated or restored.
Some of the priciest real estate in Holland is now found in these architectural
treasures, notwithstanding the strict regulations protecting the originality
and integrity of the objects.
It was a pilgrimage well taken and I am grateful for my
heritage. My book is titled NEITHER HERE NOR THERE. It is a reference to the
tug of war between my Dutch origins and my American present. In this pilgrimage
I found that life in Holland is a life of opportunity for almost everyone with
drive, ambition, and a purpose. It is a more equal society than found in
America today. The choice between HERE and THERE has only become more
complicated since I had to make it.